After spending an entire day trying to wrap my head around the shootings in the Gurudawara in Wisconsin, I have made a few observations and what better place to share them than right here on my blog. I have read all news sources that are relevant to me, namely, Bloomberg, Globe and Mail and CNN. I have also read comments of readers at the end of the respective articles.
First of all, fewer than 20% of the comments were empathetic to the victims and their families. Most of the people on these threads are looking to pick fights - one of them with me over my comment in Bloomberg.
Secondly, there are people looking at this from many different perspectives - NRA, Americanism, US-Canada relations, high unemployment rate in US, US-Greek psychological differences in dealing with recession - were some of the common themes.
Based on my own observations, I find that very few people talk about the issue at hand - may that be a meeting at the office, or a tragedy that strikes. Mostly people use a red herring to deviate from the discussion at hand and change it to something unrelated and fuel the debate to make a mountain of a mole which was not even part of the actual issue at hand.
The actual issue at hand is that someone came in a place of worship - may I add this place of worship could have been a Mosque, Hindu Temple, Catholic Church etc - and open fired at innocent people who were rejoicing the birth of a baby in their community.
Whatever the reason may be for this inhumane act, the bottom line is that 6 innocent people lost their lives and more than 30 are in the hospital of which some are in critical condition including the community hero - a police officer - who engaged the domestic terrorist and was wounded.
Now, that we know what's the topic at hand, the first gut reaction for many is finger pointing. I disagree with all of them who think so. The first reaction should be to reach out to the Oak Creek's Sikh community and offer help in whatever fashion one can. Offer support in whatever fashion one can. It is not always monetary; just a phone call stating that you are there in their time of need is sometimes worth more than a few dollars of donation. I think this reaching out to our fellow humans is lacking in most of us and this needs to change.
Our social fabric has become so rigid and at the same time immune to tragic events that we simply do not care about those who have lost loved ones. It is not a case in point of just reaching out to the Sikhs, Muslims, Jews and other religious communities. Rather we should reach out to that 15 year old boy in our neighborhood who you think can use your guidance. We as a society, not just a community, need to reach out more than we do already. We don't need fancy names of organizations to bring about a positive change in our societal functions, we need you and me, mom and pop, the average Joe to do our own part as responsible global citizens to make sure no child is left behind.
There is a popular saying - An empty brain is the devil's shop. We need to make sure that there is no empty brained child in our respective neighborhood. Just playing ball with a lonely kid at your neighborhood park can do the job. We as a society need to be more proactive in our own streets, in our own neighborhoods, in our own schools and in our own offices.
This is not just an American problem, this is a global problem. We just don't realize it because the core or root cause is often muted by the roar of finger pointing. It is time to reflect over the recent incidents and start to act in a manner that does not leave any child behind. We need to create a sense of belonging for every child that comes in this world. Each child is a miracle, including those who grow up and shoot people in movie theaters, schools and religious institutions, and it is the job of society to make sure that these miracles don't go to waste
First of all, fewer than 20% of the comments were empathetic to the victims and their families. Most of the people on these threads are looking to pick fights - one of them with me over my comment in Bloomberg.
Secondly, there are people looking at this from many different perspectives - NRA, Americanism, US-Canada relations, high unemployment rate in US, US-Greek psychological differences in dealing with recession - were some of the common themes.
Based on my own observations, I find that very few people talk about the issue at hand - may that be a meeting at the office, or a tragedy that strikes. Mostly people use a red herring to deviate from the discussion at hand and change it to something unrelated and fuel the debate to make a mountain of a mole which was not even part of the actual issue at hand.
The actual issue at hand is that someone came in a place of worship - may I add this place of worship could have been a Mosque, Hindu Temple, Catholic Church etc - and open fired at innocent people who were rejoicing the birth of a baby in their community.
Whatever the reason may be for this inhumane act, the bottom line is that 6 innocent people lost their lives and more than 30 are in the hospital of which some are in critical condition including the community hero - a police officer - who engaged the domestic terrorist and was wounded.
Now, that we know what's the topic at hand, the first gut reaction for many is finger pointing. I disagree with all of them who think so. The first reaction should be to reach out to the Oak Creek's Sikh community and offer help in whatever fashion one can. Offer support in whatever fashion one can. It is not always monetary; just a phone call stating that you are there in their time of need is sometimes worth more than a few dollars of donation. I think this reaching out to our fellow humans is lacking in most of us and this needs to change.
Our social fabric has become so rigid and at the same time immune to tragic events that we simply do not care about those who have lost loved ones. It is not a case in point of just reaching out to the Sikhs, Muslims, Jews and other religious communities. Rather we should reach out to that 15 year old boy in our neighborhood who you think can use your guidance. We as a society, not just a community, need to reach out more than we do already. We don't need fancy names of organizations to bring about a positive change in our societal functions, we need you and me, mom and pop, the average Joe to do our own part as responsible global citizens to make sure no child is left behind.
There is a popular saying - An empty brain is the devil's shop. We need to make sure that there is no empty brained child in our respective neighborhood. Just playing ball with a lonely kid at your neighborhood park can do the job. We as a society need to be more proactive in our own streets, in our own neighborhoods, in our own schools and in our own offices.
This is not just an American problem, this is a global problem. We just don't realize it because the core or root cause is often muted by the roar of finger pointing. It is time to reflect over the recent incidents and start to act in a manner that does not leave any child behind. We need to create a sense of belonging for every child that comes in this world. Each child is a miracle, including those who grow up and shoot people in movie theaters, schools and religious institutions, and it is the job of society to make sure that these miracles don't go to waste

